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Top Ten Tuesday: How My Reading Habits Have Changed Over Time
October 22, 2024
Top Ten Tuesday is a meme hosted by The Artsy Read Girl.
Each week features a book related topic to spotlight your Top Ten.
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I haven't participated in TTT in a while now. Time passes quickly these days, but I picked a heck of a topic to jump back into. It may not be every week, but I'll try to jump in more then I have.
This is an interesting topic for sure. I see more telling then showing in this one then I do in other blog posts.
I will start off by saying, reading didn't come easy to me in the beginning. I'm dyslexic with processing disorder, so starting off, reading was hard and I dreaded it, not as much as math...but that was a whole different beast.
I was pulled out of public school at the end of 3rd grade. My 2nd grade teacher recognized I was having issues and had my mom start working with phonics with me. By the end of 3rd grade my mom made the decision to pull me from public school and homeschool me. This was before homeschool had become popular. This was the time when parents were being taken to court for pulling their children out and districts were losing money over this. I was told to tell no one I was going to homeschool.
At the start of 4th grade my mom was ready to go teaching, only to find out that she needed to go back to the very beginning. Thus started my real reading journey.
By the end of 4th grade I was starting to read what I liked to consider "real book" they weren't picture books, but small middle grade reads (by to toady's classification). During this time, my grandpa would take me and my sibling to Book Stop and Walden's and let us buy any book we wanted. I picked out American Girl books, picture books, and then found Little House on the Prairie and the classics published by Puffin. As time progressed I moved on to other stories. Found Beverly Cleary and Judy Blume in my reading library. My aunt for Christmas then gave me the first 4 books of the Love Comes Softly series.
By the time I hit early high school, I had discovered Tracie Peterson, Gilbert Morris, Judith Pella, Stephen Bly. I devoured all of their books. If there was an author similar, I would buy them and devour them and reread them. I kept on this path through high school till I graduated.
Once college started, reading kind of fell by the wayside. I didn't read as much. Then lift hit. I got married for the 1st time and moved states away. During this time I suffered not only a debilitating pregnancy, but also dealt with a horrendous marriage. I couldn't wrap my mind around reading. Once my ex was deployed, a lot of the issues disappeared, not fully, but enough to lift the mental weight. With a little toddler in tow my neighbor and bestie took me to go see Twilight. This opened the door to a whole new slew of books and I started to dive into YA.
Now I will say here, Twilight is special to me in that it got me back into reading. The writing and story weren't particularly great, but it was fun. It was a new world to escape to.
I devoured all of the Twilight series and reread them again.
My friend told me about Harry Potter and let me borrow her books to read and I was hooked. I became an official Potter Head and that hasn't changed. It's one of my absolute favorite series.
From there, I moved on to Outlander and time travel reads and my world of books kept growing. I read the Sookie Stackhouse books, not all, but quite a few, and boy they were spicy.
Then I moved back home with my little toddler, divorced an abusive man, and started a whole new life. I jumped back into school and wanting to help people who had dealt with what I had, jumped into Criminal Justice, Criminal Forensics and with that a whole new world of non-fiction pulled me in as I dove heard first into this information.
But, if you watch these crime shows and listen to the podcasts, you know it is a heavy subject. You get desensitized to things after a while. My mind was numb and I needed lighter reading.
I wanderer around Borders and found some books here and there, but I needed something lighter and I made my merry self back to Mardel to their book section and found new to me authors such a Denise Hunter, Jody Hedlund, Jen Turano, Becky Wade, Mesu Andrews, Jocelyn Green, Lynn Austin, Katherine Reay, Jessica Dotta, Lori Benton, and many others. I devoured these authors books over the next couple of years. Reaching to 138 books read in a year.
After finishing school then assisting with the care of my grandma, I went back to work....at a library. Here I found more authors to try. My reading started to teeter a little bit. hitting over a 100 books in a year wasn't as easy now as I met someone new. As the relationship grew, I didn't need to find a new world to escape into.
I had started blogging and reviewing books at this time and I was trying to new authors and trying new genres.
When I left my public library job, I jumped into the world of school library, I found myself surrounded by old favorites. I will always read kid books. They are just fun and are what kids like reading. I was happy to encourage that.
My reading has stayed pretty steady in the last couple of year. I read a wide variety of stories and genres. Anywhere from picture books with the kids, Middle Grade, YA, and Adult books for me. I read printed books and listen to audio books. I think the only thing that hasn't changed yet, is that I still don't have an e-reader, which my husband likes to point out as he downloads new books every week with a press of a button.
We grow and change and I'm happy our reading seems to do the same. With growth and change comes learning and new experiences and those are what shape us. I may not have liked everything I've read, but I'm so happy about the journey a book takes me on. It's one of the reasons I love to display my books read on a shelf. Each is a trophy of achievement for me in the journey of life.
How has your reading habits changed over time?
Let me know in the comments below.
Personal Update
February 10, 2020
I don't usually share personal things on my blog. I like the anonymity. I'm a shadow lurker by nature, always with a book in hand.
Even though I live for being a person of discretion, when something of the personal nature comes up that affects my blogging, I have to share about it.
My blogging as of late has been sketchy with the timing I know. Life has just up-heaved me in all directions. We finally moved into the house we were building at the end of October, beginning of November. I know that is the time when my blogging tanked.
Well, a couple of weeks before that, I found out I was expecting!
You are reading this now as I'm sitting in the middle of my 2nd trimester.
Baby W is due in June 2020.
Baby W is the reason my blogging has tanked in the recent weeks/months.
With my first child, I was diagnosed with Hyperemesis Garvidirum and I have it again with baby #2.
People call it extreme morning sickness....that is actually very far from the truth. Crackers and ginger do nothing to touch this illness. My body fights the pregnancy. My HCG levels are more than double what a normal singleton pregnancy is and because of that my body reacts in a very negative way.
I'm currently on several anti-nausea meds to help combat this illness. They are the same ones that they give to cancer patients. But, they don't always work. The meds help in keeping me from being as sick as what I can be, but I'm still nauseous all day, everyday. Eating is the last thing on my mind. I suffer from severe aversions. It's a battle to drink. As a lot of things don't stay down long. Weight loss is hitting hard (usually not a bad thing, except for now) my doctor is closely monitoring it and with that exhaustion has set in. It takes a lot of energy to go to work every day. I've become anemic with an iron deficiency. My protein levels are low. So we have to watch organ functions. This condition can affect kidneys, liver, and the heart. I'm thankful I have so much support. I was far away from my family when I had my daughter, so this is a whole new experience. A bit harder medically speaking, but so much easier being close to loved ones and having everyone I need right by me.
I'm very thankful that I'm not as bad as some women who battle this. As I write this, I have yet to need to go to the hospital for fluids, it's been close, which is something that is regular with HG. I had to a couple of times with my daughter.
Hyperemesis was brought to the spotlight in the last few years in part of the Kate Middleton in England suffering with it and also comedian Amy Shumer.
This is the condition that killed Charlotte Bronte. She wasted away due to being pregnant. Thankfully, medical science has come a long way, but sadly, HG is one that is still not widely known about. Only about 2% of pregnant women will suffer with this and it is something that can be passed down genetically.
If you would like to read up more on Hyperemesis, you can follow the link provided.
The HER Foundation is the leading site in sharing the knowledge of HG and the research behind it.
I thankfully I have a very knowledgeable doctor assisting me with all of this. It is a trial and error trying to figure out a medication combo that will help tame the illness and nausea that will allow me to freely eat and drink again.
However, if you could spare some prayers for relief and rest, I would be forever grateful.
Baby W is healthy. I'm very grateful about that.
Baby W is healthy. I'm very grateful about that.
I will blog about books still, but it may not be as prolific as I once was as we get closer to summer, but I'm still here.
I will also give some updates on Baby W as I go.
If you have made it this far in reading, bless you!
I wish I had a cookie to give you.
Now, for some fun news!
I wish I had a cookie to give you.
Now, for some fun news!
We found out the gender of Baby W!
Drum-roll please.........
Baby W is a boy!
Despite all of the sickness, we are beyond thrilled.
Thank you for visiting.
I know it isn't the normal books news, but I'll be back to that soon. :-)
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